The business of real of estate has always been about networking. This industry practically wrote the book on networking. I remember when I first moved here, sitting with friends at Rafter’s in the Village, packed in like sardines listening to some band when the woman sitting next to my friend started talking to us. We made small talk until she offered me her business card out of the blue – a real estate agent. What a conversation killer. We made excuses and slunk away into the crowd. I wish to this day that I had kept the card so I would know who that was. Midnight at Rafters, people out having fun, drinking and listening to music – and here was this real estate agent passing out her business card.
I still hear people saying things like: “I don’t go home until I’ve passed out at least 15 business cards on a given day” or “You need to join your local church, rotary or other organizations to network.”
And yet, if I ask them if they’re on Facebook or LinkedIn, they throw me that exasperated look as if I’m asking them if they play video games. But it’s called Social Networking folks! It is the heart and soul of our industry, but for some reason, passing out business cards to random strangers makes more sense to them.
On-line, you have the opportunity to show people who you are, to ‘build’ relationships. You have ability to make people understand what you’re about and what you can offer them. They can see your personality beyond the hard sell of “do you need to buy or sell your house?” Handing out your business card to every random stranger you meet… yeah, that’s effective.
Wanna know what I did with that business card handed to me at Rafters? We marveled at how pathetic it was to be lurking around Rafters on a Saturday Night trying to peddle your real estate business. Wanna know the best part? I was in the market for a house at the time. Was I going to use a perfect stranger who handed me a business card in the middle of a good time at Rafters? No way!
Also, don’t be one of those people that other people try to avoid… do you notice that people seem to duck behind the banana display at the grocery store… or how many parents at school seem to rush off when they see you, suddenly remembering they had to be somewhere? It’s those business cards you’re shoving down their throats. No one likes to be sold to…
Conventional thought had been that social networking on-line was the realm of teenagers or the young in general. Well, perhaps there is light at the end of the tunnel. If the average age of a REALTOR® is about 55 years old… then these new statistics should prove positive. I found this great quote today:
Older users continue showing up on Facebook and social networking sites. Facebook saw an increase in visitors who are 55 and older, a whopping 108 percent in September 2009 compared with September 2008. Overall U.S. visits to social networking Web sites from users who are 55 and older have increased 77 percent year over year. Visits from users 18 to 24 to social networking sites have decreased 33 percent year over year.amychorew.com, Thinking of Using Social Media in your Business?, Oct 2009
You should read the whole article. Then hope that among those who made up the 108 percent increase in Facebook were REALTORS® finally seeing the light.
In any case, my next free seminar for our board office is coming up Oct. 21 at 2:00pm called “Social Media: Business of the Future or Just and Excuse to Goof Around?” It’s a basic overview of what social media is… how it works…why it works… and how it can impact a real estate business. The coolest part of this is that I used the Prezi presentation tool rather than the bland PowerPoint for this class… so it’s sort of cool and I had fun putting it together!
And by the way, my feelings are this: join a church, join the rotary club, join all the charitable organizations you want… but do it because you want to join – because you believe in their cause… not simply to find prospective buyers and sellers. The business you get from that should be a side effect of higher intentions and jobs well done.
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